Unin

April 16, 2007

 

It’s fair to assume that it occurs in every workplace every week of the year—Someone makes a “throw away” remark. Intentionally or not, the remark deeply offends another. A whole series of unintended consequences begin to flow.

 

During the past week, much of America has reacted to a remark made by radio personality Don Imus. Everyone, including Imus eventually, agreed the remark was offensive. Everyone, including Imus, agreed the Rutgers womens basketball team deserved an apology. Everyone now agrees that the event has presented us with the opportunity to collectively discuss what is and is not appropriate to say in public.

Let me toss in my two cents: Disparaging remarks about other people—their race, religion, gender or sexual orientation—have no place in today’s workplace. None whatsoever. 

When discussing e-mail etiquette, I often remind young professionals that they should write nothing in an e-mail they would not feel comfortable seeing on the front page of the New York Times. The same rule applies to what professionals say at work.

Throughout the past week we’ve learned that three words said without thought can offend a nation and end a career. It’s time we all commit to being much more mindful of our thoughts and words.

 




 



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